Graciousness

Romans 12:1 “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Grace is transforming. It releases our hearts and opens us up to the marvel of life and love. It was transforming for us when we first came to Christ who declared forgiveness. It is transforming for others who experience our grace. Grace and love go hand in hand. It allows people the freedom to live and learn, to adjust, to feel valued, to experience appreciation and respect, and develop a sense of belonging. We often live in fear of being excluded. Judgement twists and contorts the human spirit and puts us at odds. Grace invites wholeness and peace; inner peace as well as communal harmony. Grace instills a sense of wellbeing.

I like to think that the apostles demonstrated an extra measure of grace in dealing with people. They were successful because they adequately managed differences in real life situations. Graciousness is attractive and easy to spot. It is a respecter of people and their experiences and stands on the conviction that, through it, people will be led to God.

God was gracious first, initiating a like attitude. Oh, the sublimeness of this attribute, how it settles the soul and allows for growth. When people experience it, and reflect on God’s gracious demeanor, it brings people into the fold.

If you are gracious to yourself, it will reflect outwardly. You will then be able to show grace to others. Humility precedes grace inviting a gentle touch and a measure of finesse. Deal graciously with the world, and the world will respond in like manor. Consider, we judge because we first feel judgement. Through grace, God releases us from this cycle opening our souls to infinite love.